Today was the long awaited day (at least for me!) to have a meeting on discipline with the caregivers. Since today was payday, it made the most sense to have the meeting coincide with everyone present to pick up their paycheck. We met in the dining area and I was surprised to see other workers joining us. I reminded Ferdinand that only the caregivers needed to be there though everyone else was welcome to stay if they wanted to – and they did. Using hindsight, it was probably a good thing that they were all there so all the staff will know what we are trying to do and which direction we are heading in. We opened with prayer and then I said, in Swahili, for them to forgive me for using English since I am still learning Swahili very slowly. Then I turned to Ferdinand and asked him if he was ready to translate for me. I went through some of the verses from Scripture that I had looked up in studying discipline of children and then made some application for us at Tumaini. After that, Ferdinand read through the Philosophy and the list of wrongdoing and the corresponding punishments. Finally, the floor was opened for questions. I was pleasantly surprised that there were few questions and mostly just needing clarification on some of the punishments. There were two items we added to the list. One was from Gaudencia, the washer lady. She said that sometimes in the evening she will ask the older children to help her bring in the clothes off of the line and they refuse to help her. The wrongdoing falls under our category of disobedience to an adult but we "tweaked" the punishment for that particular item. For disobedience we have said that the children will lie in their bed for a period of time. Since this disobedience toward Gaudencia is so close to the children's bedtime, it really wouldn't be much of a punishment to cause them to lie in their bed. So we decided to remove their video watching privileges. Sometimes in the evening, Ferdinand will let the children watch videos – but not every day. If it happens to be a non-video day, then the child will lay in their bed when they arrive home from school the next day.
The other item we added to the list was from Odilia, the nurse. She said that there are Form 1 children, which are the youngest – like 1st grade in the U.S – who arrive home late from school. Typically, they should arrive home around 11:30 a.m. but many of them are arriving home with the Form 3 children who are finished with school later in the afternoon. Since we have a list of children who should be eating at particular times, and the cooks are trying to follow the schedule, then it causes some problems down the line. We are going to try a punishment that the offending child will lay in their bed until all the older children arrive home and have eaten. Then the child will wait for another half and hour after which time, he will be allowed to eat. Hopefully, it will only take one time to get the point across.
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